Hello, I really wish some NDErs would stop talking about a pre-planned life. First of all, I assume that for 90% of humanity it does not make any sense whatsoever: wars, terrorism, poverty, abusive environments, mental issues, psychopathic personalities, mental breakdowns, dysfunctional families, su...

Having read many of these NDE accounts, I can only come to the conclusion that each experience is unique and individualized for that particular person. This is my understanding as well. In my opinion NDErs who talk about pre-planned lives overgeneralize. They make their assumptions from the lesson ...

Exactly, it used to be very problematic for me, too. I did struggle with this kind of message for a long time. But one of my favourite NDErs explained this in a very simple way and now it seems to me that pursuing joy (sometimes joy is called happiness, but these two are not exactly the same ideas) ...