Perhaps a way to look at this question is to step back and consider it in a more general way.
Stepping back, one sees that there are so many different individual personal points of view and experiences derived from "life
" that maybe another way to view things is that one is (so to speak) already "there
In other words, there are many domains (mansions) and you are a conscious entity residing in one, this particular one being called "an earth life while in human form
That is, from somewhere we arrive here, experience a bunch of stuff (and hopefully change in some way based on proclivities, limited free will bounded by circumstance & chance then move on to somewhere else - other domains, perhaps in other forms) as part of continued conscious existence. That this is part of a developmental existence that might even be endless is suggestive by some NDE. Individuals who have left their bodies during an NDE end up at least temporarily having some portion of their consciousness entering some other or an adjacent realm that may just be more accidental and not really their formal "next stop
." Hence, the "go back, it's not your time
Anyways just a thought.
Step back and take a look at all the different experiences cited in the research below. To me, it is appearing suggestive that we may already be embedded in and part of the thing we are seeking.http://www.near-death.com/science/research/heaven.html
"You are already That which You seek.
" - Ramana Maharshi