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I've had many OBEs over the years. Many people believe that lucid dreams and OBEs are the same thing now, and I tend to agree with that.

I had a real OBE just the other night actually, but it was the lower astral with typical astral weirdness.

I found two women using OBE's and LDs. In other words, I had a relationship with them in spirit before I met them in real life. The second one became my current wife. For each, I prayed to "the universe" with a heartfelt plea to be shown my perfect mate, soulmate, or whatever you call "the one." I had OBEs and LDs that showed me her, and I talked about this experience on a forum on the internet. A lady responded and asked for more details. It was her. She was married, and as I was still in a dead marriage at the time, we had an affair that lasted two years. After that, I prayed again and had more experiences with a different woman. As my marriage was ending, we started dating long distance. She is from another country. From the OBEs I knew what her parents looked like, what she looked like, and what her parents house looked like. I knew which country she was from as well. We finally met in person at an online dating site. She's my current wife.

So, I've had a lot of experiences with OBEs and LDs.

That's pretty amazing. Is the OBE something you can do at will, or does it just happen without your intention?

Very interesting and so happy for you both, that you found each other. Glad to know there are others out there, as I have had a lifetime of similar experiences
Thank you for sharing

All this is really amazing. I have had many OBEs but have never really used them to organize my physical life: only to meet with deceased loved ones.

I am so glad you and your wife found each other.